5 Things Hunting with Kids Has Taught Me About Motherhood
I used to think hunting was about the tags, the meat, and the memories.
Now I know it’s about patience, perseverance, and parenting in its rawest form.
Hunting with kids has tested me more than I ever expected—but it’s also shaped me into the kind of mom I never knew I could be. Here are five lessons the backcountry (and my kids) have taught me that no parenting book ever could.
1. Pack Light—Emotionally, Too
You quickly learn what matters most when you’re miles deep in the wilderness with three snacks left and two kids on the verge of a meltdown.
Let go of expectations, perfection, and plans that don’t allow room for chaos. Kids need your presence more than your perfection.
2. Slow is Strong
It used to drive me crazy when we moved at a snail’s pace through the woods. But I’ve realized that slowing down helps my kids see things I would’ve missed—tracks, feathers, movement in the trees.
It’s not about how fast we go… it’s about how much we notice.
3. Grit is Grown, Not Given
Hiking in the cold, carrying packs, pushing through tired legs—these moments grow more than muscle.
I’ve watched my kids dig deep and surprise even themselves. And I’ve learned to stop rescuing too quickly—because resilience needs room to rise.
4. Nature Softens the Hard Days
Postpartum, anxiety, burnout—whatever I’m carrying, it feels lighter when I’m outside with my kids.
There’s something sacred about being surrounded by sky, dirt, and open space. It reminds me that we were made for more than busy schedules and constant noise.
5. The Best Memories Are Made in the Mess
From muddy boots to snack disasters to missed shots, the best stories we have are the imperfect ones.
I used to dread the mess—now I welcome it. Because this is real life. This is how memories are made.
So if you’re in the thick of raising kids and wondering if it’s even worth it to bring them along—trust me, it is.
The woods have a way of shaping hearts, both theirs and yours. Keep showing up, even when it’s hard.
Because these wild, messy, beautiful moments? They matter more than you know.
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